Friday, August 7, 2009

Good Sex Long Term Relationship

Couples in long-term relationship is often less sexual energy. In fact, more than half the people in my "collection of sexy couples to participate in seminars in the hope of their sexual energy, while others want to know that it is not perverted sex to enjoy, especially in mature and beyond. Everyone wants to, and they want that passion with others. You want to grow old together as lovers, not the fourth.
After sex older, sexual energy is welcome, but not easily. Hidden sexual energy can be found if people know how and where to look. Most couples are looking for when you feel comfortable when it is not. Couples often as drunk looking for keys in the street light because the darkness prevented them, wherever they are.

Comfort is more than the fear that prevents sexual passion, but the necessary comfort in the relationship. Affirm and support, coupled with proximity, familiarity and predictability. Partners who are your friends for life, worrying about how to respect and complement each other in growth. There is simply convenient.

There remain only in the comfort zone stifles sexual energy. Couples, comfort (only under the lamppost), and to avoid anxiety (avoidance of the dark). Fear is hard to bear, but growing. Relationship without fear Mildenberg haughty confidence. "No increase in the agreement, if the partner to avoid tension, discomfort, and learn. The stiffness of the cost of comfort is a victim of sexual energy.

Deep in the sexual time of his life makes a joy and fear. This means that fear can also contribute to increased awareness, erotic energy. For example, the opportunity to allay their own anxiety, rather than expect your partner can help you create a resource for erotic feelings. This is also true for adult victims of incest and other injuries.

The efforts of the tensions between the partners may develop a tolerance, the ability and inclination to a very erotic sex: "I am ready to say how deeply sorry I did not feel sexual, and why?" "This is what I really want / not want? "You want to say" yes "for me and my partner?" "Is it a belief in me when I was sad or not?" "I have the courage not wrong feelings, no emotions, to protect against the inconvenience to be avoided?" "Is telling the truth about my own experience?"

Office of anxiety in the service of growth means that the increased risk in relation to you. Demonstrate integrity in the management of your account. Integrity gives an indication that concerns about risk, for example, in connection with the hidden self with your partner, and that, as an adventure. To control the fear that their relationship to deeper intention of staying with their partner. For example, if you learn to confirm and save, you can self-confirming, without your partner to be different, even if you do not like him. You can tolerate the intense feelings of your partner and yourself, and your own, even if he finds it impossible. You do not threaten you, your partner or your self-esteem, and I promise you to do all this in the relationship. Management of fear means that you tolerate intimacy. This differs from the surrounding areas. This closeness is usually free from fear, family, comfortable and predictable, privacy can be loaded with fear, weird, risky and surprising. Intimacy is a profound experience of self-determination in relation to the partner. In private life, other experiences and deep, not always at the same time as your partner.

Intimacy may be a very happy and very unpleasantly insistent. The latter happens when your partner is expected to either reject or mute You (They can not both), and really believe that they can not get in the face of any event (as adults, in fact, powerless and do not survive without special noise). If the first, finally, his own thoughts, feelings and behavior, and we are ready to accept this with your partner, and without fear.

Privacy is not negotiable (behavior is the reverse). The person, the risk of sexual integrity and personal lives, often traveling expressive in some way for life. The successful struggle to be true to yourself when it comes to fear that, in life, that will certainly be the end no matter what else happened. This can be a powerful deterrent and an incentive to learn profound life sex partner that you time. In a culture that deplores the death, he has the courage to love a partner for life.

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