Love Bites

Spicing up your bedroom moves is essential to keeping the goods vibes flowing between you and your partner. Although there are many options available, lets take a look at an oft-underestimated action to intensify the carnal desires. And did i mention it involves teeth ?

Most guys understand that sensual nibbling is a key part of intimacy, particularly during fore-play, but it can also the ante while in the throes of full-on lovemaking. But ..... it's gotta be done the right way. It is very important to know where and how to give tender bites. This will definitely vary between people and some may just be totally turned off by it, but, in general, we've found through .... ahem....experience (and fairly in-depth surveys among friends and collegues) that many couples really dig it.

One key thing, especially if your partner has not experienced it before, is to be serene and gentle so it's a pleasurable time and not something seen as weird or painful. Also remember that locking eyes while you're locking into her flesh can, in most cases, drive the two of you into a state of passionate frenzy. be generous with your love bites, but keep them special by not overdoing it. Ideally, we've found it best to start from semi-erogenous zones and nibble your way to the more sensitive bits-like from the shoulders to the neck and earlobe. BUt, be careful not to make it seem obvious as you want to keep your partner in a state of carnal anxiety over your next move. If you stay with the same routine over and over, it could get quite boring. Other bits of the anatomy that seem to respond well to loveing bites are the breasts, the belly, inner thighs, buttocks and arms-to make your partner squirm with pleasure.

In my experience, if done right, she'll be on the verge of exploding with sexual desire from these tantalizing soft nibbles. At this point you might consider clamping down a bit harder on most sensual areas to keep up with the level of arousal. Sensual biting is always a turn-on as your body reacts to the moderate pain with a heightened sense of pleasure. However, and this is probably obvious to most readers, you don't want to go too far to the point of unbereable pain. That can have teh effect of dropping the arousal level. And, if you and your partner are not super close(e.g., only been dating a short while), you might be taken for some kind of kinky, sadomasochistic freak. It's just one those things where you both need to be in agreement beforehand.

Through a lot of research complementing my own personal journeys, here are some key dos and don'ts i've come up with.

THE DOS

Creating the mood

Like foreplay before sex, setting the mood and directing her toward that road will ensure you and your partner have agreat jpurney. Your partner should be ready in her aroused state both physically and mentally. With the kisses and warm touching, this will slowly create that mood where she is ready to accept whatever you are into while not shocking her or changing the mood. Once the desire is apparent, gently suggest to make her comfortable and ready for action. If she shudders with pleasure, consider it a green light to continue. Keep an eye on her facial expressions once in a while so you know how she is feeling, as this gives you a better indicator of what to do next.

Caress your lover's erogenous zones

Biting is an art, and it takes a bit of practice to master it. However, if it's new territory for either of you, then start with soft and tnder kisses on the neck and move your way into the nibbles. You can push her sensual desire into frenzied lovemaking delight by beginning your moonlit magic with sensual kissing, then slowly taking command and showing her that you know a few things about keeping your lover happy. The inner thigh is another area where you can make their toes curl with more delight.

Don't stay on the same point too long

To keep the pleasure high for a longer period of time, keep it quick. The longer you try to maintain the pleasurable bite, the more pain is registered onto your partner. Therefore, the ideal nip should not last for more than a afew seconds. However, if you partner asks for more, then prolong it, or simply tease her a bit, for a more intense feeling. Make sure not to brood on a particular point or return to the same zone too much. This could get very boring, predictable and even painful. Don't make your lover feel like she's in bed with a cannibal, and don't forget to mix it up with kisses and licks as much as possible.

THE DON'TS

Avoid biting random areas

No matter how much your partner enjoys this play, random biting of odds places like the kneecap or the ankle joint without any focus can turn off anyone in a flash. Aside from being painful in some spots-especially before the arousal level is suitably hight-some places just have little or no sexual sensitivity and could potentially ruin your evening-and put a damper on your sex life (especially if she runs to tell her friends). Try to ensure your lover moans with pleasure and not with agony.

Don't gnaw

Don't make your loved one feel like a bone being chewed on by the pet dog. Always remember, the more you nip a particular area for more than the required time, the less pleasurable the sensation becomes. Keep your bites crisp, clean and quick, and move on to toher areas that generally don't see the light of day.

Avoid making any noise

You may want to go wild and turn on your lover, but that doesn't mean you have to make unnecessary noises like an animal to scar her for life. For some people, overdoing on the slurping and smacking of the lips can be particularly disgusting. Silly expressions like, "yummy" might even turn your lover off completely. Avoid these corny expressions and gurgling noises, but let out your natural coos or light moans of satisfaction without overdoing it.

Biting can be dangerous

Biting can be very dangerous, too. This is common sense, but make sure you don't get carried away biting near a wound or a rash (you might also want to ask yourself why you are in bed with or even touching someone with wounds and rashes at that point). Aside from hurting your partner feeling good. However at same time, do not panic over a slight pink discoloration on an area you have bitten, it will be gone in the morning depending on how "eager" you were.

Sensual biting can be a very pleasurable experience for women and men, so take these sensual biting tips to bed and watch how quickly your partner melts in your mouth.